Getting the best remote control vibrator is a pathway to fun and pleasure. These toys open up a whole new world, making it possible to enjoy yourself wherever you please.
Take the use of sex toys beyond the bedroom and enjoy public play. Connect intimately with a long-distance relationship. Add more fun and spice to your bedroom activities. Get an orgasmic experience to the sound of music or even your partner’s voice. The opportunities are endless!
There’s a long list of things to do, but make sure you have the right tools to go along. Remote controls are available with almost every type of vibrator. It’s how you choose to play with these toys that makes all the difference.
Here’s a listing and review of remote vibrators that you will enjoy!
Top Remote Control Vibrators To Buy
1. Lovense Lush 3
Lovense calls the Lush 3 the most powerful Bluetooth remote control vibrator. While I have no academic verification for such a claim, I can say it is an impressively strong toy. Lush 3 has benefitted from several upgrades Lovense has sent its way.
The journey from Lush to Lush 3 has been an exciting one. While the Lush struggled a bit, Lush 2 was a fun vibrator, and Lush 3 has built stronger on that legacy. Lush 3 is stronger, better built, and overall technologically superior to its predecessors.
As for its control, the Lush 3 works on Lovense’s teledildonics. The vibrator connects to a smartphone via Bluetooth. After successful pairing, you can control the vibrator through Lovense’s smartphone app.
Conventional remote control range goes about 20 feet, but you could as easily use the internet and control the vibrator from anywhere in the world! Distance between lovers doesn’t become a problem for intimacy!
Thanks to app control, Lovense Lush 3 Bluetooth remote vibrator can work on practically unlimited vibration patterns. If you’re willing to be more creative, the vibrator can sync to music and even voice.
Remember that song you think is orgasmically good? Time for it to be literally so!
Pros
- Low noise, making it suited for public play
- Silicone coated sex toy, with good build quality
- Decent charging and play times
- Deep and rumbly vibrations
- Possible long-distance vibrator control via the internet
- Can sync vibrations to music and voice
Cons
- Expensive
- App control can sometimes be flaky
2. We-Vibe Sync
We-Vibe Sync is the couples vibrator to love. The dual-motor vibrator packs a punch and remembers that it aims to please. Thanks to its dual motors, the clitoris and g-spot get plenty of pleasurable stimulation. Given its shape and use, it also manages to massage the g-spot while stimulating it, thus paving the way for a lovely orgasm.
Since this is a couples vibrator, it has a little something for men too. When used during PiV sex, the smooth part of the vibrator massages and stimulates the penis. The combo of stimulation for the couple usually enhances the experience during sex.
There’s always room to get more from this remote vibrator. Interestingly, We-Vibe Sync works with two remotes – a conventional remote and a Bluetooth smartphone remote. For the latter, the control comes through the We-Connect app.
Using the app makes way for several features on this vibrator. These include long-range control and quick management of patterns and vibration intensity.
On the other hand, the conventional remote is simple and has four buttons. These manage the vibrator’s built-in power and pattern settings.
Though powerful, this vibrator is still relatively quiet. You can use it without a worry. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous, go for public play without worrying about the noise attracting attention.
Pros
- Powerful, dual motor vibrator
- Control through conventional remote or phone app
- Comfortable, yet reliable in holding its position
- Convenient dock for charging and storage
- Good quality construction with silicone coating
Cons
- Can make things feel cramped during PIV sex
3. Magic Wand Massager With Remote Accessory
Originally known as the Hitachi Magic Wand, the Magic Wand Massager has a storied history in the world of sex toys. It is one of the most powerful vibrators available, though it doesn’t come with a remote as default.
The joy of being around for decades and a near-iconic status is that there are countless accessories and equipment available for this massager. Pair it with the Wand Essentials speed controller, and the Vibratex Magic Wand now has a remote!
The remote also functions as a Variable Speed Controller, enabling several intensity settings for the vibrator. Note, the basic Magic Wand comes with only two intensity (speed) settings.
Therefore, the remote adds to the overall usability and capabilities of the Magic Wand Massager.
I call it a huge win. The massager gets more usability and a remote, without compromising on its conventional usage and power. With the use of this accessory, however, the remote too is wired.
If you’d prefer a wireless option, Wand Essentials also has a wireless remote option. The basic setup for wireless is very similar to wired options. The only major difference is the presence of a wireless conventional remote. Well, it should come in handy with a few situations!
Pros
- Powerful wand vibrator
- The wand massager is also useful as a conventional massager
- Simple to use remote with excellent response
- Several accessories available for the Magic Wand Massager
- Available with wired and wireless remote
Cons
- The remote looks dated
- The wired accessory (remote) adds to the already bulky massager
4. Lelo Lyla 2
Lelo’s SenseMotion remote makes the Lelo Lyla 2 all the more special as a remote control vibrator. Its feedback system and gesture control make this SenseMotion remote amazing.
Sure, you could control Lyla 2 with a conventional button setup for the remote. But where’s the fun in that?! SenseMotion is fun because of its simple gesture controls and the element of simplicity and excitement it adds. There are several modes for this remote and how it controls the Lelo Lyla 2.
Mode 1 has the orientation of the remote dictating vibrator intensity. When placed horizontal, the remote has the vibrator running at 10%. Move it and the intensity increases – until it hits the full 100% with vertical orientation of the remote.
Mode 2 attaches intensity of the vibrations with the movement of the remote. The faster you move the remote, higher the intensity of the vibrations.
Let your imagination take the wheel as you make the most of both these modes!
When functioning in normal mode, Lelo SenseMotion remote runs the vibrator through preset intensity and pattern settings. A total of six patterns are available for use.
Remote aside, Lelo Lyla is a remarkable vibrator with amazing power in a small package. The vibrator is good to use externally for clitoral stimulation as a bullet. Or, insert it and use it as an egg vibrator.
Much of its body is coated in non-porous silicone, which is a delight to touch. The base and the string are made from non-porous ABS plastic, making it hygienic and easy to manage.
Lyla 2 is rechargeable, waterproof, and offers a play time of 2 hours on a full charge. The remote requires 2 AAA batteries to function.
Pros
- Very low noise
- Waterproof
- Enticing range of patterns and speeds
- Good range and response for the remote
- Multiple gesture modes on remote for fun and creative play
- Uses body safe materials like high-quality silicone and ABS plastic
Cons
- Expensive
- Range can reduce remarkably once the vibrator is inserted
5. Lovense Nora — Cool App Controlled Vibrator
Lovense Nora is a fine example of the company’s focus on teledildonics. This rabbit vibrator is powerful, fun, and has plenty of features worth coveting. Nora is a Bluetooth remote vibrator that connects to your phone. Once paired, you can control the remote with the Lovense app on the phone.
While there are basic controls on the device for standalone use, its true potential and features unlock once it connects to a smartphone.
Users can control the insertable side and clitoral appendage independently. This dual setup gets vibrations where you want them and how you want them. It also leaves a lot of space for customizing vibrations and play.
The insertable side of Nora focuses on “rotation”. The rotating head of the vibrator moves in small, circular motions. Lovense says this motion massages the g-spot for more intense orgasms.
The available rotation modes are low, medium, and high.
Lovense Nora has its body coated in silicone, while the control panel is plastic. This combo makes this rechargeable vibrator body safe and hygienic.
As is the case with Lovense’s teledildonics, the user can share control of the vibrator via the app. That means your partner can control Nora from anywhere in the world (provided both of you have good internet connections).
Lovense Nora is equipped for long-distance sex. It’s a very interesting and intimate approach. Nora syncs with other Lovense sex toys like Max or Nora. Use of one toy directly affects the intensity and use of the other.
For example, your partner could use Lovense Max and his thrusts and intensity would affect the patterns and speed on Nora. Conversely, your use of Nora would reflect on movements and intensity on Max. Quite a way to achieve long-distance sex!
Pros
- Made from body-safe, non-porous, phthalate-free materials
- Powerful rabbit vibrator with excellent remote control
- The rotation movement of the main shaft is fun and pleasurable
- Can sync with other sex toys for a more intimate setup or long-distance sex
- Possible to control both appendages individually
Cons
- Expensive
- Low usability as a standalone vibrator
- Sync feature can turn buggy when used with other sex toys
6. Phanxy Rechargeable Clitoral & G-Spot Vibrator, Waterproof Couples Vibrator
Phanxy Rechargeable Clitoral & G-Spot Vibrator, Waterproof Couples Vibrator is a combo vibrator running off a single, powerful motor. Designed for use by couples, it has room for inserting the penis while the vibrator is in action. During PIV sex, this means there’s stimulation for the g-spot, clitoris, and penis.
It has nine speeds, all to be controlled by its remote, giving you room to go solo or spice it up with your partner. Your partner may be clumsy with a remote, but guide them to do things the right way! This vibrator is simple, highly functional, and good at its job.
The vibrator has a fair range and runs off a rechargeable Lithium Polymer battery. Its battery is recharged by means of a simple USB recharging unit with magnetic charging. Much of the vibrator is coated in silicone, though the remote is plastic.
Pros
- Rechargeable
- Powerful
- Simple to use
- Waterproof
Cons
- Can get noisy at higher speeds
- Has a single motor on the g-spot massage, very low clitoral stimulation
7. ERO Wireless Waterproof Silicone Love Egg — Simple Remote Control Egg Vibrator
ERO Wireless Silicone Love Egg is a fun remote vibrator. It is meant for internal use, but you can as easily use it on the clitoris as a bullet vibrator. It has some great features that make the Love Egg somewhat interesting, even exciting for use.
These functions include the boostvibe and auto-heating modes. The remote has a dedicated button for boostvibe. It basically sets off the vibrator to move at a higher intensity. Sometimes we do need that extra dose of power to go over the edge and getting it with a hit of a button is way better than fumbling with controls!
Auto heat mode is similar, or rather an option geared for comfort. As the name implies, this ERO Love Egg “heats up”. The warm vibrator is a nice touch – and actually quite comforting! Once switched on, the vibrator’s heating function automatically kicks in, raising the temperature to 107.6 degrees Fahrenheit.
12 intensity and pattern options are on offer, each available at the push of a button. Each button press takes you to the next mode, so you’ll have to cycle through the available options to find the one you like the most.
The silicone egg is fairly silent in operation. And its remote has a range of about 30 feet. You can go about your daily activities with the vibrator inserted and the remote in hand. The vibrator is made from medical-grade silicone and uses ABS plastic for accents.
Pros
- Auto-heat function is amazing
- Boostvibe mode is useful, and welcome
- Waterproof
Cons
- Remote does not use standard AAA batteries and replacements can be tough to find
- Overall construction should have been better
8. Lelo Ida
Stylish and versatile, Lelo Ida is a fantastic vibrator. A thoughtful package, Ida stimulates the clitoris and the g-spot. When in position, the upper side rests nicely over the clitoris, while the other slides in to stimulate the G-spot.
The length of the insertable side isn’t much, mostly because its goal is to stimulate the G-spot. Overall, it gives a wonderful combo of clitoral and g-spot stimulation.
Since it is designed as a couples vibrator, Lelo Ida is available for use during PIV sex. It should be fun as the vibrator stimulates the clitoris, g-spot, and penis, enabling the couple to share and enjoy the sensations.
However, reality tends to be a tad different. Lelo Ida’s insertable stem isn’t exactly thin. That means some women (or men) may find things somewhat crowded or uncomfortable while having sex with Ida inserted.
Although, those comfortable with the setup will definitely enjoy the sensations.
For control, Ida uses Lelo’s remote and SenseMotion technology. The remote is available for use as a conventional remote, or with gesture controls.
There are two gesture modes. In the first mode, the vibration intensity depends on the orientation of the remote. For the second, the intensity depends on how fast the remote moves.
The experience is quite something. Vibrations from the Ida are strong, rumbly, and go deep. Its insertable side moves and rotates, adding an extra touch of massage and stimulation for the g-spot.
Pros
- Excellent stimulation for clitoris and g-spot
- The included remote is convenient
- Gesture modes for Lelo SenseMotion remote
- Great for shared stimulation during PIV sex
Cons
- Expensive
- Some couples may not find this vibrator comfortable during PIV sex
9. Lovense Hush — Best Remote Control Butt Plug
Lovense Hush is a powerful and feature-rich butt plug. The high-tech vibrator is simple and fun to use, with plenty of options available. While powerful, the toy is not huge or uncomfortably heavy. It’s shaped for easier insertion, and the company says even novices can use Hush without trouble. Still, remember to be generous with lube before you play with the Hush.
Given its comfortable shape and size, Hush has no problem staying in place throughout the day. Once you’ve placed this vibe, go out and enjoy your day! It will stay in position easily and won’t disrupt motion or comfort. That’s what makes it easy and so desirable.
As with other Lovense sex toys, Hush connects to your smartphone through Bluetooth and is controlled via an app. Use the app to choose vibration strength, intensity, and patterns. The setup means you practically have unlimited patterns to use for vibration.
In case all those options aren’t enough, let the butt plug dance and vibrate to your favorite song. You’ll have to sync the sex toy with the music library on compatible apps to enjoy this feature.
And if music doesn’t do it for you, feel free to set the Hush to respond and vibrate to voice input. Yes, you can use your own or your partner’s voice to get the vibrations going!
Pros
- Lovense teledildonics enable vibrator control from anywhere in the world
- Powerful and discreet
- Syncs (and vibrates) to music and voice input
- Rechargeable, powerful, and easy to clean
Cons
- Gets noisy at higher intensity settings
10. Remote Vibrating Panties
Remote Vibrating Panties are the perfect accompaniment for some naughty and fun times. These are, by and large, made for the fun and rush of public play. As the name implies, the set contains a thong panty, a bullet vibrator, and a remote.
The soft and stretchy panties have a lace waistband, complementing its sexy style with comfort. There’s also a small pocket inside the panty where you can place the vibrator. It’s a fairly secure pocket and keeps the vibrator in place.
Speaking of, the bullet vibrator is also available for use when inserted. It includes a string that makes it easy to insert and remove the vibrator. The bullet vibrator offers three speed settings and seven patterns.
All of these are controllable through the included remote. It’s a simple 2 button remote, where the push of the buttons cycles through the available speed and pattern options.
The claimed range for this remote is 45 feet. Generous as the claim is, I’d put the range at 25 feet – lower if the vibrator is inserted. During public play, the presence of people and other objects too can affect the range.
Pros
- Silent operation
- Easy and fun to use
- Good pricing
- Decent build quality and construction
- Sexy panties!
Cons
- It can take some effort to keep the panties in place! Wearing tight fitting clothes could help
11. Little Black Panty – Wearable Panty Vibrator
Little Black Panty takes a slightly different approach to wearable vibrators. The included vibrator here is curved, intending to follow the labia and provide maximum pleasure by stimulating the clitoris.
A small pocket in the panty holds the vibrator, which runs on the tune of a single-button remote. Made from ABS plastic, the vibrator is capable of running through 10 vibration modes.
I like this vibrator-panty combo, even if I’m not generally a fan of tying strings. In this case, however, it works. And it’s glorious!
Tie the strings as securely as you like and the panty holds the vibrator in place with ease. It is a bit of work, but an elegant solution to hold the panty (and vibrator) in place.
The good part is that the vibrations are enjoyable. Plus, it’s silent enough to take out for public play even in relatively quiet restaurants.
Pros
- Well-made vibrator and panty
- Pleasurable vibrations
- Rechargeable vibe (though remote needs 2 AAA batteries)
- Panty and vibrator stay securely in place
Cons
- The single-button remote makes it easy to fumble with functions
12. We-Vibe Rave – Strong Vibes
Everybody’s been raving about the We-Vibe Rave – and with good reason! This g-spot vibrator has strong, rumbly vibrations that penetrate deep and deliver amazing pleasure. Almost anyone who has used this vibrator will attest to its ability to bring out those wonderful, toe-curling orgasms.
We-Vibe Rave has a prominent, curved shape. Rather than being cylindrical like most g-spot vibrators, this one is asymmetrical. And it uses this shape with a remarkable effect. Its asymmetric head is a genius at massaging the g-spot and delivering strong vibrations there.
You’ll see strong vibrations mentioned quite often in the context of this vibrator. Even its lowest setting is fairly strong.
The silicone coated vibrator connects with your phone through the We-Connect app. Once connected, you can control the entirety of the functions of the vibrator through your phone. It’s fun for couple play.
Although, when going solo, it is more convenient to use the onboard controls of the Rave. They’re just more convenient to use.
Pros
- Strong, deep, and rumbly vibrations
- High-quality build
- Its asymmetric shape is surprisingly fun and pleasurable
Cons
- Only splashproof, not waterproof
- The remote control can be flaky
- For solo play, it’s more convenient to use the onboard controls
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All You Need To Know When Buying A Remote Vibrator
How Does The Remote Control Work?
There are several types of remote vibrators and their controls vary too. Let’s take a look at the most common types:
- Wired remote
- Basic remote
- Smartphone remote
Wired remotes are the oldest category and a rare find these days. As the name implies, the control for these remotes is wired to the vibrator. Perhaps not the most convenient setup, but a reliable one. They have an instant response time from pressing the button to action from the vibrator.
A basic remote is technologically similar to your TV remote. Press buttons, have the vibrator do things! Simple, convenient, and intuitive! By the very nature of this setup, it lacks some advanced functions and is limited in range. Line of sight can affect how your remote and vibrator interact.
Smartphone remotes are the cool new things these days. The remote vibrator connects to your smartphone via Bluetooth (some may use WiFi). Once connected, you can use the related app on your smartphone to control the vibrator.
Many of these connect to the internet and present a very wide range of options in patterns, intensity control, and more. Some toys even allow sharing controls with another person. Enjoy the magic of teledildonics.
Hold Up! What Is Teledildonics?
Modern remote vibrators can go high-tech – and it’s glorious.
Teledildonics is a specific application where sex toys can have remote control over a very long distance.
For compatible sex toys, all that’s needed is two users with an app and a reliable Internet connection. Once the toy owner authorizes control, another person can control the vibrator from anywhere in the world.
Long-distance relationships just got a lot more intimate.
Speaking of, in some cases, it’s even possible to sync up your sex toys to heighten play.
For example, sync a male masturbator and vibrator, and each will respond to sensations from the other! Or, sync two vibrators and watch them respond to each other. It’s an exciting application for sex toys and remote vibrators – and definitely fun.
Using Your Remote Vibrator – The Outlay
Going Solo With The Vibe
Go hands-free with your orgasm. Many remote vibrators are small enough, or placed in a way that doesn’t need your hand keeping them in place. With the vibrator putting itself in place and the control in your hand, you get to enjoy your me time your way.
Stay in whatever position is comfortable for you and hit the remote to manage things your way. Simple and convenient – exactly how it should be.
Share It With Your Partner
Bringing your partner to the mix opens up a whole new avenue of playful and sexy things to do. Have them control the remote vibrator, or let them earn the right to control it. This is a great way to spice up things and get more intimate.
It might take some time and training, but your partner will learn the right buttons to push for you (and the remote).
Make Long Distance Relationships More Intimate
Physical intimacy is an important part of any relationship. But that’s the one thing that’s most affected when you’re in a long-distance relationship.
Get remote control toys with teledildonics into action!
Well, remote control vibrators can’t replace physical proximity and intimacy. But they can bridge the gap and help you feel more intimate and connected with your partner.
Cam Sites And Similar Applications
Cam sites are another area where teledildonics-compatible vibrators find great use. Sharing controls to the vibrator with a patron or even syncing up sex toys is well within the realms of possibility.
Many manufacturers of these toys include options that are compatible with cam sites. These may include tips, payment options, control management, and more.
Discreet Public Play Gives More Action For The Best Remote Vibrators
Public play is an often-exciting forbidden fruit that remote control vibrator users love to enjoy. Let your partner control the vibrator when you go out.
Whether you use it on a walk or in a restaurant, you can use it as an outlet to your kinky side. Or be naughty and play at the most unconventional places. I hear even boring meetings get more fun with a remote controlling holding your attention!
When going for public play, remember to be mindful of the noise from the vibrator. Many vibrators designed for this purpose are relatively quiet and won’t attract attention.
Still, there will be some noise. If you’re using the vibe somewhere risky (remember that office meeting example?), pay extra attention to the noise level.
Shoring Up Choices For Remote Vibrators
Buying the best remote control vibrator is a smart idea. It opens up a realm of possibilities and fun. Whether you want to have more intimate and fun times with your partner, or widen possibilities, these vibes make it possible to take the path you want.
So, saddle up and choose the one that works best for you. Whether you want public play or more fun in the bedroom, these vibes can handle it all.